I’ve Had It: Standing Up to Gun Culture

I’ve had it.

I’ve had it with gun culture. I’ve had it with this ridiculous notion that the Second Amendment means every citizen is entitled to an unlimited arsenal of military-grade weapons.

I’ve had it with the NRA and their bullying. I’ve had it with their outright lies and arm-twisting. It turns some of our country’s leaders into puppets for gun manufacturers, and brainwashes otherwise well-meaning citizens.

I've Had ItI’ve had it with threats being hurled at me every time I bring up gun violence. (For the record, if you want to engage in a civilized debate on this issue, I’m happy to do so. Send me hate mail and I’ll block you. Because I’ve had it.)

I’ve had it with children shooting other children. Who buys their five-year-old something called “My First Rifle” — and what kind of crazy person markets such a thing in the first place? Giving teens or young adults rifles for hunting as part of a family tradition, with proper training and handling rules, is one thing, but a five-year-old child?

I’ve had it with people dying every day at the end of a gun: children, grandparents, sons, mothers … even police officers, those who are among the best-trained gun handlers in the country. If they can be gunned down, what hope is there for the rest of us?

I’ve had it with the cowards in the Senate who voted against background checks because they didn’t want to be on the NRA’s bad side — or worse yet, just to oppose the President. So every day, more guns get into the hands of people who have no business owning them, due to sheer greed and political pettiness.

I’ve had it with the people who tell me I don’t know how to be responsible for making decisions about my own reproductive health while insisting that they can be responsible for their guns. Tell that to the people in Newtown who died because someone who was obviously mentally unstable got his hands on his mother’s arsenal. An arsenal so large that maybe, just maybe, someone should have thought to question her need to own so many guns.

I’ve had it with being afraid that the next person to be gunned down will be someone I love. Because I’ve watched people I know personally go from being what I’d consider sensible, responsible gun owners — who, just a few months ago, thought universal background checks were a good idea — to being zealots who think background checks are infringing on their liberty and assert that we’re coming for their guns and dammit, they’re not going to stand for it. They’re keeping all their guns and buying more.

I’ve had it with the idea that a large number of Americans think an armed rebellion in our country might be necessary soon. There’s an actual number, in fact: 29 percent. Just let that sink in. More than one-quarter of our citizens are thinking they’ll need to rise up against our government and take matters into their own hands. If that doesn’t frighten you, it should.

I’ve had it with being afraid. I’ve had it with wondering how many people will die every day. I’ve had it with being told I’m trying to take away someone’s rights because I don’t think they have any need for weapons or ammunition that can fire off who-knows-how-many rounds in seconds. That’s not what the Founding Fathers had in mind when they wrote the Second Amendment. They couldn’t imagine the technology we have today. They were thinking about muskets and cannons, not assault rifles and nerve gas.

I've Had ItI’ve had it with people who ignore the words “well-regulated militia” in the Second Amendment. The Framers of the Constitution were smart enough to know that the world would change, so regulating things like, say, weapons of war might be a good idea. If someone wants to wield a weapon of war, he or she should enlist in the armed forces. Not in a rogue militia that wants to overthrow the government. There are, in fact, laws against that.

I’ve had it with the attitude that the rights of gun owners are more important than everyone else’s. I am not saying people shouldn’t own guns for things like hunting or self-defense. I’m not saying we should change or disregard the Second Amendment. But when children can’t go to school, families can’t walk down the street, people can’t open their front doors or drive to work without fear of being shot, it’s time for reasonable limits.

I’ve had it with the idea that life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness is about gun owners first, and everyone else second. They do not control this country and it’s time we fought back — not with guns, but with our votes and our voices. A majority of Americans think there should be some sensible measures in place to make it harder for criminals or the mentally unstable to buy guns, such as background checks that are no more onerous or intrusive than applying for a driver’s license or a passport. Many of those people are gun owners. And we need to stand up and say we’ve had it. We’re not going to re-elect representatives who put the interests of a lobbying group or a vocal minority ahead of the wishes of their constituents. Who put political ideology before the sanctity of human life.

I’ve had it. If you have, too, now is the time to do something about it. Let your elected officials know that you won’t live in fear. And if they won’t do something to change that, you’ll change the playing field by electing someone who will.

You can find your members of Congress here.

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13 thoughts on “I’ve Had It: Standing Up to Gun Culture

  1. Rosie says:

    Reblogged this on FEMBORG.

  2. Chris Hobbes says:

    Please make a donation to Americans for Responsible Solutions if you want to make a difference.

    • Excellent suggestion, Chris. I do contribute to Americans for Responsible Solutions and hope others will do the same, if they’re able, or at least help them spread the word about the great work they do. Thanks.

  3. First. I enjoyed reading this. I fully support the ENTIRE Second ammendment, not just parts of it. I am open minded enough that I can value opinions that are contrary to my own.

    Second. The general population is currently barred BY LAW from purchasing “military-grade” weapons as you call them. The AR-15 is NOT a military weapon. It lacks the functionality of firing more than one bullet per pull of the trigger. It DOES have a 1:1 ratio of trigger pull to bullet fired.

    I served in the Army. I was trained on how to handle a full automatic M-16 rifle. I’m also, like all males over the age of 18, registered for the Selective Sevice. That is a regulated militia. Look it up.

    Third. The founding fathers did infact have modern rifles in mind when they wrote the Second ammendment. What was their assault rifle? They were thinking of us today when they included the words. “Shall not be infringed”.

    Fourth. I hate the fact that lobbyists have more pull than the citizenry. I wish that people that were elected to represent the people would actually do that.

    Fifth. Nobody has been able to explain to me how restricting citizens from having guns makes everyone safer. Chicago has the most restrictions in the country. If you live in Chicago you can not own a gun at all, yet somehow 500 people were murdered last year. I can’t believe the Chicago police murdered that many people. Because by the law they are the only ones who can legally have guns. And even at that I don’t know why they even need guns when it’s not lawful for anyone else to have a gun.

    Lastly. The FBI did a background check on me when I applied to obtain a permit to conceal a loaded gun on my person. I was granted the permit an I carry a semi-automatic handgun every day, hoping I never have to use it, but prepared to do so.

    Thanks for your post.

    • Thanks so much for reading, and for your thoughtful reply. We can all learn from each other, as I did from your input. We do have some differing viewpoints, but also some points of agreement. There are solutions to violence if we work together, respectfully. Thank you for demonstrating that Americans can have the kind of reasonable discussions that can reduce violence while honoring the rights of all.

  4. Josh Stern says:

    I’m all for gun control… with a notable exception, concerning you…Unless they could scalpel out that pointless and stupid smugness that certain self-entitled little girls seem to be infected with. And you’re lousy with it….

  5. Rob Halprin says:

    What a well thought and enunciated position, I’m 110% with you, paricularly your grace under pressure, you tell ’em Danica!

  6. Rob Halprin says:

    What a well thought and stated position, I’m 110% with you, particularly your grace under pressure. You tell ’em Danica!

    • Thank you! (To be clear, I’m not Danica, but we are often mistaken for each other.)

      • Rob Halprin says:

        Not important who said it, it was the content that counted!

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