Speaking your mind

A lot of people have been asking me about messaging lately. I don’t mean at work — that’s nothing new. I’m talking about people who want to know how to have conversations with the people in their lives about politics and issues they care about.

Most of these people are Democrats who are frustrated by trying to respond to right-wing talking points. Although I’m not a fan of talking points as a replacement for meaningful communication, they have their place. But talking points should be an appetizer, not a main course.

Speaking your mind

That said, the reality is that we live in a world where talking points are a steady diet for many people — politicians, pundits, reporters and citizens. People swallow these morsels and think it’s the whole truth.

Of course, it’s not.

To be fair, I know many Republicans who want to have meaningful, rational conversations about the issues. I’m dating one of them, and I promise there are others. When you get to have a civilized debate with one, make the most of it.

But when that’s not the case, how can smart, motivated Democrats articulate complex issues in a world of oversimplification? How can they be heard above the din of shouting and nasty rhetoric that is so often hurled at them by people who don’t share their views?

Whether the conversation is over the dinner table, over the phone or on social media, here’s a three-step strategy for personal messaging.

1. Know Your Stuff

Speaking your mind

Many Democrats do this already, but it bears repeating. Be as well-informed as possible — and make sure your knowledge is well-rounded. Don’t just listen to the reporters you agree with and don’t just follow people on Twitter who share your views. Get your news from a variety of sources and know the key facts. For those who are eager to support the President, there’s some excellent information to be found here and here. As credible as those resources are, think for yourself. Read, watch and listen to everything you can. I know it’s time-consuming, but the more you know, the better you can concisely convey your thoughts with confidence. Facts are facts. Yes, people will give you their own set of facts — and be willing to accept that, sometimes, they may have a point. Find out where you went wrong or learn from the experience. But if you’ve done your homework, chances are much higher that you’ll be speaking the truth.

2. Keep Your Cool

A shouting match never ends well. You only succeed in alienating people. In fact, many GOP pundits are starting to turn voters off with their nasty rhetoric. Go ahead and let them. Every day, I try to live by the words of Leo McGarry: “We’re going to raise the level of public debate in this country, and let that be our legacy.” Plus, nothing stops bullies faster than seeing their tactics aren’t upsetting you. Take away their overblown sense of superiority and you’ve already made a powerful point. You don’t have to shout to be heard. Plus, you might actually get them to have a rational conversation. If not, at least you tried.

3. Make It Personal

Find a way to humanize the point you’re making. For example, the President wants to put more teachers, cops and firefighters back to work. Mitt Romney thinks we need fewer teachers, cops and firefighters. Start with facts: The President wants to create jobs, Romney wants to take away jobs. Romney said that by hiring less public sector workers he plans to put more Americans back to work. But he has yet to say how he’d do that. In fact, I have yet to hear him say specifically how he’d create any jobs. After you state the facts, personalize it. Tell the story of your brother the firefighter who lost his job or your friend the teacher who is frustrated by how large her class size has grown, making it nearly impossible to give students the individual attention they need and deserve. If the story is one of your own, so much the better. But even a hypothetical story can underscore your point.

Speaking your mindMaking it personal is key.You start with the facts and then take them out of the abstract and place them squarely in people’s real lives. The mother who can’t take her child to the doctor because they don’t have health insurance. The recent college graduate so buried in student debt that he has to work three jobs to make ends meet and pay off his loan. Think about it: The plight of a multi-millionaire or corporation having to pay higher taxes, or a factory having to install safety equipment because of regulations will never be as compelling as the family who pays their mortgage on time but still can’t afford to stay in their home, or the man who died because his workplace wasn’t safe.

While many Republicans spend their time pointing fingers and hurling insults, let’s stay focused on the messages that matter. Let’s do a better job of communicating than the other guys do. Let’s have conversations every day that help raise the level, that help amplify the President’s accomplishments and clearly outlined proposals for moving this country forward.

Chances are, we can’t outspend the other side. But I am confident we can outsmart them.

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2 thoughts on “Speaking your mind

  1. Josh Ellis says:

    Interesting post. While I might disagree with some of the substance of your argument, I think agree with its principle. I wrote a piece for my blog titled, “Political Maturity,” where I made some similar arguments, from a right-leaning moderate perspective, http://geoausch.com/political-maturity/ .

    In my life, I’ve on both sides of the political extremes and have quite simply grown tired of ideology and talking points. I would love to see a Presidential campaign where we do not hear the terms “abortion,” “Supreme Court, ” or “gay marriage.” Instead, we have candidates basically debating political philosophy. For example, a Democratic candidate would go out and give us all a lesson on Keynesian economics and why it’s the proper answer to our economic woes, while a Republican candidate would craft a rebuttal in which they expose the weaknesses of Keynesian theory.

    Or how about a nice debate on the “forgotten man” syllogism?

    To me, these kinds of philosophical debates would be far more beneficial than the same tired campaign speeches. No politician will ever be able to fulfill all, or even most, of their campaign promises. All they are doing with their speeches is trying to rally the base.

    I think this type of campaign would help cut down on some of the faulty/reductive logic employed by politicians and pundits today.

    For example, in your post, you assert “the President wants to put more teachers, cops and firefighters back to work. Mitt Romney thinks we need fewer teachers, cops and firefighters.”

    That’s not entirely true. Mitt Romney, to my knowledge has never said, “we need fewer teachers, cops, and firefighters.” However, the Republican Party as whole does believe that those are tasks for a local government to undertake, not the Federal government.

    Indeed, the Republican Party favors a more bottom-up form of government, as opposed to the top-down government favored by the Left. Instead of reducing the Republican position, let’s have an argument on the value of a “bottom-up” form of government to a “top-down” form of government.

    • Thanks for reading my post and for your thoughtful response. I look forward to reading your post.

      I do think we fundamentally agree on the principles. I would much rather hear (or read) a solid debate on issues and policies than talking points any day. Sadly, I think many people are so overwhelmed with information that they can’t absorb much more than talking points. In other cases, I think they simply don’t want to hear the truth from “the other side” or even dig deeply into what their own preferred party believes.

      I would love to see everyone engaging in more well-thought-out, meaningful — and civilized — debate. But sometimes, especially on Twitter or when conversing with someone who will only speak in talking points, you have to make your point succinctly.

      You are correct (as far as I know) that Mitt Romney never said exactly the words “we need fewer teachers…” etc. — but he’s certainly given the public reason to feel he thinks that way. He was strong in his disagreement with the President’s proposal to add more of these jobs in the public sector as part of a strategy to create more jobs and stimulate the economy. And Romney’s education policy would, in fact, cut back on teachers (here’s a link to an overview with a link to the policy paper)

      But, yes, what we’re discussing here goes beyond simply the specifics of teachers, firefighters and cops. It’s about a bigger difference in a philosophy of governing that certainly bears discussion at all levels, from individual citizens to the highest levels of government.

      I highly value the opportunity to exchange ideas like these in an intelligent, polite debate. Thank you for that — and for sharing some thoughts from a perspective that’s different from mine while demonstrating that there’s always common ground to find.

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